🔥 Dating Backwards? Let’s Flip the Script! 🔄
In this powerful exploration of God’s design for relationships, we’re challenged to reconsider our approach to dating and marriage. The central message revolves around the importance of prioritizing spiritual connection over physical attraction, drawing inspiration from the story of Abraham’s servant finding a wife for Isaac in Genesis 24.
This narrative beautifully illustrates how God’s order – spirit, soul, then body – differs from the world’s focus on physical appearance first. We’re encouraged to become the right person rather than simply seeking the right person, emphasizing character development and spiritual growth. The discussion delves into the psychological impact of casual relationships and the importance of setting clear boundaries.
As we reflect on this message, we’re invited to examine our own relationships and dating practices, asking ourselves if we’re truly honoring God’s design or falling into worldly patterns. This teaching offers a fresh perspective on how we can align our romantic pursuits with our faith, potentially transforming our approach to love and commitment.
Pastor Gay teaches us how to navigate relationships God’s way:
- God’s order: Spirit, Soul, Body | Cultures Order: Body, Soul, Spirit!
- “A faithful 7 > a crazy 10” 👀
- Guard your heart – it’s not a game! ❤️🛡️
- Establish boundaries IMMEDIATELY
- Don’t get bookmarked – classify that relationship!
Remember: You’re worth more than situationships and compromise. God’s love is the standard – pursue Him first!
About the Author
Jerome Gay, Jr., is the founder of Vision Church in Raleigh, NC—a gospel-centered, socially conscious, missionally minded, disciple-making church that’s serving Raleigh and surrounding areas. At Vision Church, he serves as the Lead Pastor of Teaching, Preaching, and Vision.
Jerome also serves on the board of Thriving, an urban resource collective that equips and trains urban practitioners for ministry and impact. He speaks to churches and organizations all over the country. He has a Master’s Degree in Christian Studies and Ethics from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. Jerome is married to his lovely wife, Crystal Gay, and is the father of Jamari Christina Gay and Jerome Jordan Gay III.
